When you fight about something , does it sometimes feel like you don’t know exactly what your fighting about or all the aspects of the fight . For the guys , I’ll make this simple . Sometimes we don’t even understand why our wives / girlfriends are upset or mad at us at all. We feel like we have done nothing wrong . Let me add a bible verse to hopefully explain some of the confusion . Ephesians 6:12 ( NIV ) For our struggle is not against flesh and blood , but against the rulers , against the authorities , against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realm. Satan wants to kill and destroy your relationship and steal your JOY , JOY only comes from GOD . There is a battle going on in the heavenly realm that most of us can’t see , it’s between spirits of good and evil , it most certainly affects our lives on earth . I don’t know about you but I don’t like fighting with my wife , I would much rather live in peace and harmony on a daily basis . If you find yourself struggling to live in peace and harmony , and all of us do . Here is a tip to help with that struggle . Crack open your bible to Ephesians 6 : 10-19. It will give you the weapons to fight in a spiritual battle , against things unseen .